5 Questions to Ask When Hiring a Doula (That Most People Forget)

Choosing a doula is one of the most intimate decisions you’ll make during your birth journey. You’re not just hiring someone to show up on a specific day—you’re inviting them into your energy, your vision, and your most vulnerable moments. That’s why asking the right questions matters.

Here are five powerful questions I always recommend asking:

  1. How do you support the emotional and spiritual aspects of birth?
  2. What’s your philosophy on advocacy and autonomy?
  3. How do you personalize your care for each client?
  4. What kind of postpartum support do you offer?
  5. What’s your energy like in a birth room—and how will I know we align?

These aren’t surface-level questions. They’re soul-centered ones. Because doula care isn’t just about what I do, it’s about how you feel in my presence. Safe. Grounded. Seen. My hope is that this guide helps you find someone who

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